When you reach a certain age, it seems as though everyone around you is in a relationship or about to get married or start a family. Meanwhile, you are chilling on the sidelines still a single pringle. It’s ok to be single. Being single doesn’t mean you are bitter or lonely. If anything, you have the freedom to do what you want without having to factor in the needs or desires of another person. You are placed in a position to focus on your own self-development uninterrupted. What do you hope to accomplish in the future? How are you going to achieve said goals? Are you the person that you want to be at the moment? Consider that before factoring someone else into the equation. Create your own happiness first so that you can add it to someone else’s.
A person doesn’t complete you. When you entered this world you were whole. That does not change when you become older. You complete yourself because you are self-sustaining. Anything or anyone else is an add on to the awesome life you already have. Become the person you want to be. In the process of doing so, the right person will come at the right time.Don’t hate the season you are in because you want to be in a relationship. It is preparing you for the next one which will be 10 times better! If you want something hard enough you will find it at the wrong time and in the wrong place. Desperation has a tendency to fool people into settling for less than they deserve. Remember, you aren’t just any type of rice. You are jollof rice. Eventually, your time will come. Be patient.